It almost sounds like most of you want some sort of artificial intelligence feature for maps. Give me a route that avoids left turns where there are no traffic lights but try to avoid rerouting me into residential neighborhoods even if that would be faster, etc.
FWIW, for something like this, I just use old-fashioned looking at maps ahead of time to decide on a route when I reach the destination. The navigation apps always reroute if you leave their preferred route so they’ll continue to try to get me there. But I believe that you can do this now by using an intermediate “destination” (or a few) on the same side of the road just before your ultimate destination so the navigation will direct you there first. I haven’t done that in a while so I don’t know if that’s still a good thing to try.
Unlike you, it’s rare for me to use navigation for a route that I know well. It’s only when I generally don’t know where I am going that I use navigation.
FWIW, I had two examples of this in just the last week. On Monday my wife and I were driving home on a 6+ hour trip using Apple Maps and we started getting alerts fairly early on that a road was closed on our route 200 miles ahead and that guidance was changed. And last night we were meeting friends at a restaurant we’d never been to (only about 25 miles away this time) and used Google Maps and, again, it asked about changing the route due to traffic conditions ahead (with two big buttons on screen, “accept” or “no thanks”).
I am also fairly certain that Apple Maps and Google Maps monitor how people are moving through traffic as they are using these products as they drive and will alert or offer to change navigation due to any issues they perceive with traffic movement. I know that Waze was very aggressive about this when I used to use it, and it’s aggressiveness about trying to guide you around traffic through residential neighborhoods was one of the reasons that I stopped using it. I almost always use Apple Maps these days, because Google Map’s interface has just become so busy and advertising-directed, and Apple’s support of local landmarks has improved a great deal in recent versions. My wife still prefers Google Maps - hence why we saw the rerouting behavior with both products in the last few days.
I know that both Google Maps and Apple Maps has a reporting feature for temporary changes due to road closures, etc. - I’ve done both in the past. When I did it with Google about 7 or so years ago to report a road closed for 18 months due to bridge repair a person at Google responded to the request asking for more detail. On Mac with Apple Maps there is a “report something missing…” menu in the Maps Menu; on Google Maps I believe there is something similar in the hamburger menu.
One more thing that I’ll note: over the weekend, while I was away, we wanted to get some cash at a local ATM. I started walking navigation to it on Apple Maps and then started a walking workout on my watch, and this was great: the watch kept showing me a very good map view of my route as I walked while the workout app collected the workout data in the background. I did have my phone in my pocket, so I think the navigation was still happening there (the one time I got confused about the route it re-routed on the fly and still got me there.) This was a great experience IMO, and I didn’t have to keep my phone in my hand in order to do the navigation. Apple has done a nice job with integration on this one.