It may not be obvious to everyone posting here, but there are two primary categories on this site: Article Comments and TidBITS Talk. (The third is Site Feedback, but that’s seldom used and only for technical meta-discussions of Discourse and this site.)
Article Comments are just that—they are associated with and appear under articles on the main TidBITS site through Discourse’s integration with WordPress. In contrast, topics created in the TidBITS Talk category appear only here in Discourse.
If I’m going to spend hours researching, writing, illustrating, and editing an article, it pains me to see the comments underneath it to be vitriolic attacks on Apple’s executives or intentions, back-and-forth sniping between participants, or anything that veers off-topic. It makes TidBITS look unprofessional and unpleasant, and it makes me look bad as an author.
I’m not saying that any of those things are acceptable in posts in the TidBITS Talk category, but I’m a bit less picky because the conversations don’t reflect directly on work I’ve done.
I spend significant amounts of time, money, and effort running this site and trying to help people, both directly here and by expanding on our articles for those who run across them later. When I see people arguing and complaining and changing topics (usually to get a whine in), it makes my stomach hurt. It’s not funny, it’s not being direct, it’s not telling truth to power—it’s just unpleasant. Maybe I’m more sensitive to this stuff than you are—tough. It’s my site, it’s not a democracy, and if I stop having fun running it, I’ll shut it down.
I’ve taken another pass at the rules for discussion here to clarify them. Posts containing the following types of content are not acceptable and may be edited or deleted without notice or explanation:
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Trivial replies like “Thanks.” (That’s why there are minimum post length settings.) Click the heart button under a post to indicate positive feedback.
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Signatures. Every post has your profile information attached to it, and email signatures in particular just clutter topic threads.
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Whining about Apple. I am so sick of whining. If you don’t have anything constructive to say, don’t say anything at all.
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Disparaging comments about individuals, either other participants or public figures. Disagree with posts, not with people.
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Venomous language. You can make a point without referencing the Nazis or suggesting capital punishment or using other forms of extreme language.
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Subscription or membership questions. Send email to support@tidbits.com instead.
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Press releases, commercial notices, or Web site announcements. It’s fine for an employee of a company to mention its product if it’s relevant to an existing topic.
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Spam of any sort. Posting spam will result in account removal.
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Anything I feel is inappropriate, particularly off-topic posts or personal attacks that will cause arguments.
Finally, let me make it clear that I don’t want to waste even more my time having discussions about why I’ve edited or deleted something. The answer will always be in the list above.